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📝 LIB: Life Lessons from 30 to 44
Five Interesting Things I Came Across This Week
Sup friends 👋,
Appreciate all the feedback on the previous newsletter 💙 - going to keep a similar flow.
I’m back in the UK and ready for the final sprint till end of year - the weekend was busy, but I’ve got content to share so let’s get it :)
#1:
I’m going to start as I look to end this newsletter - with life lessons (i’m a sucker for them!).
A few I enjoyed:
Start or end every day with writing about your life. There’s always something buried underneath the to do list in your head, something you didn’t realise you felt, that when written down, will make everything clearer.
The best place for ideas is alone and on the move.
All kids ever want is you. Your full undivided attention. Even twenty minutes of that in a day is better than a whole afternoon of scrappy conversations and phone scrolling.
The small details of your day matter. Be it your first cup of coffee in the morning, or the way you make your bed, or a walk through the park on the way to work, life is year upon year of stacked up small joys like these. Take pleasure and pride in them.
Put your phone down. Put your phone down. Put your phone down.
This was a great interview with Jennifer Phan, the CEO at Passionfroot - it’s a platform that makes it easy for creators and media companies to find and manage brand partnerships.
Some of the key learnings:
This is an important problem to solve as millions of people don’t want a linear career anymore and choose a diversified portfolio of income
Brand partnerships is one of the biggest revenue streams for a creator
They did 100+ user interviews with creators before they even built anything to ensure they developed an essential product
Jen uses David Allen’s Getting Things Done to prioritise her todo list, so all tasks fall in one of the following lists: Next Actions, Waiting For, Someday, Agenda
One central leadership philosopher of hers is to give frequent, candid feedback to magnify the speed and effectiveness of the team
There’s a lot more gems, so I’d encourage you to read the full thing (they’re dealing with an internal issue as the site is down, but beehiiv are fixing)
#3: Getting traction in crypto
This tweet was timely; at times, i’ve been drinking the crypto/web3 kool-aid around building ethos-driven focused products, when actually, we just need to focus on building better, faster and cheaper products.
If we listen to what users want and build based on behaviours we’re seeing, we’ll likely build something valuable.
i'm sick and tired of seeing this narrative of crypto founders who are mad b/c "gambling/casino products" are winning instead of their personal high-brow, decentralized, useless-product-but-has-a-good-ethos.
let's get one thing out the way: everything is a fucking casino.… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— br1an.eth (@bdguan)
7:15 PM • Dec 15, 2023
#4: Being lucky vs hard work (Peter Dinklage)
First thought - when I saw these two photos, I thought ‘damn! this guy’s range is crazy’
Second thought - you have to read the story, going to actually paste it below - it’s so well articulated when we think about what we consider to be lucky, but is most likely years of graft to get to a certain point.
“I hate that word - ‘lucky.’ It cheapens a lot of hard work. Living in Brooklyn in an apartment without any heat and paying for dinner at the bodega with dimes, I don't think I felt myself lucky back then. Doing plays for 50 bucks and trying to be true to myself as an artist and turning down commercials where they wanted a leprechaun. Saying I was lucky negates the hard work I put in and spits on that guy who's freezing his ass off back in Brooklyn. So I won't say I'm lucky. I'm fortunate enough to find or attract very talented people. For some reason, I found them, and they found me.”
A photo of Peter Dinklage when he was young.
“I hate that word - ‘lucky.’ It cheapens a lot of hard work. Living in Brooklyn in an apartment without any heat and paying for dinner at the bodega with dimes, I don't think I felt myself lucky back then. Doing plays for 50 bucks and… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— Fascinating (@fasc1nate)
7:43 PM • Dec 17, 2023
#5: 30 lessons at 30
I remember sitting down to write up my own version of these (found here) - i’m a sucker for a good life lesson post (as you can tell by #1), so here’s the key ones I resonated with from this post:
There’s no substitute for focus
If you’re not scared, you’re not pushing
Meditate when your mind gets noisy
Take the time to teach, even when you don’t have much to teach
Hone your strengths, avoid your weaknesses
If you can’t write it, you aren’t thinking it
The time will pass whether you worry about it or not
Walking everyday is the best way to touch the grass
I decided to write up 30 things I've noticed about the world in my last 30 years on this planet
I wish I'd noticed some of these things when I was younger!
Images here, link and thread below:
delian.io/thirty
— delian (@zebulgar)
7:33 PM • Nov 30, 2023
That’s all for today 🙂
Fahim